Sunday, 5 January 2014

Expelling negativity

This week I am filled with such tremendous happiness after making some positive changes in my life. Months ago now I bit the bullet and let go of the negative people in my life. While I knew that even though it was hard it would be good for me to let go of these people I didn't quite realise the potential for change this would have. The moment I made that decision and let go of the people that were bringing negativity into my life there was room for more positivity. While I'm still in the early stages of my new found friend and and romantic relationships I am so far extremely happy that I found the strength to move on of the people that were bringing me down. As soon as I stopped wasting all my time on people who make me feel down I was able to give time to those who raise me higher than I had been in a long time. I am grateful for all the people in my life and I am so thankful to those who helped me to realise that I deserve better.
So this is it. I have never really been one for new years resolutions, it being my belief that the power to change your life is yours at any given time and a new calendar year isn't going to give you the motivation to drop those 20kg you've been carrying around for 5 years. I however have made a resolution for myself this year. In 2014 I am not going to allow negative influences to weigh me down. I am going to recognise the good and the bad in my life. I am going to appreciate the good, and allow it to know that it is appreciated, and expel the negative. I am going to be braver and stronger than ever this year. I am going to grasp positivity by the proverbial neck and I encourage you to do the same. Here's to a stronger 2014. None of us deserve to be weighed down by negativity because we are afraid of getting hurt or hurting someone else. Sometimes, as I experienced in last years cull, it will hurt and you will wonder if it was the right thing to do but in the end removing yourself from negativity opens you up for more good in your life. It is worth it, you are worth it.

End cliche motivational speech 

 

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